tHIS MOM MATTERS
Hi, I’m Nicolette, your coach and guide, ready to help you navigate the chaos of motherhood and find time for you again (without all the guilt)!
I’m here to help any and all moms, no matter what stage of motherhood they are in! From new moms, to moms who have an empty house for the first time in years, all moms are welcome here!
With personalized coaching, we’ll work together to set goals, develop a positive mindset, and release the “mom guilt.” I’m here to guide you every step of the way. What goals can we accomplish together?!
In our mom community, This Mom’s Circle, we’ll focus more on building a supportive and like-minded community of moms that have the desire to find themselves while finding more calm. I’m here to help facilitate conversations to share ideas and build a network that can be relied on. This is a safe space, and judgement free place to connect with other moms.
Services
You give your time and energy away all day, get time back for yourself.
Personalized 1-on-1 coaching
Together, we’ll set goals and work through a personalized plan to help you achieve them. Every mom is different, so we’ll work to make sure we have the best plan for you, not somebody else!
This Mom’s Circle Community
Are you looking for a group of moms to lean on? In our community, you get the benefit of coaching while also connecting with other moms that you can lean on and grow with!
Schedule a Clarity Conversation Today!
A Clarity Conversation is an introduction to coaching and my services to see if it is a good fit for you! In this free call we will start to discuss your motherhood journey and find clarity about what you would like help with so that you can start to feel more fulfilled as your own person. If you don’t see any times that fit your schedule, please go to one of the “contact me” buttons on the website and fill out the form. I will work with you to find something that works!
personalized coaching
This Mom’s Reset
Find time for yourself while resetting the way you think about being a mom.
Setting your goals: What do you want to achieve for yourself?
Do some digging into your desires for yourself and find what would help you feel more like yourself. Being a mom is wonderful and special, but it is easy to feel like you’ve lost yourself along the way. Finding what you desire for yourself, is the first step to getting back time for you!
Releasing the Guilt: Turning off that nagging feeling that you aren’t doing enough.
Maybe you know exactly how you would like to spend time on yourself, but there’s something holding you back. You are a mom, all of your time should be given to your kids, right?! WRONG! We will work to reset the way your brain thinks about what it means to be a mom, so it learns that taking time for you is necessary!
Not “Just A Mom”: You’ve found what you desire, you’ve released the guilt, what else can you achieve?!
We start small with little changes to your day. After finding time in your day for you and releasing the guilt, what other goals do you have? How else do you want to feel fulfilled? Do you have time for friends? Time for date night? What will you achieve next?!
Online community
This Mom’s Circle
Find time for yourself while making connections with other moms.
Create Community: Find a circle of support
Connect with other moms to support each other through the ups and downs of motherhood. Talk out your needs and goals for your self-care and receive encouragement and accountability that is supportive and free of judgement. We can grow and learn together!
Get guidance and support virtually
It’s hard to find time for yourself when you’re a mom. In our online community, our focus is making self-care actionable, realistic, and attainable EVERY DAY! You can check in to our virtual community each day and share what you need help with, or cheer someone else on. We will also hold monthly virtual calls led by me, where you can ask your questions and get answers to help you through!
Real self-care, real support, in real time
In our online community we focus on real self-care and offering real support. It’s not like get tips for influencers online, where you can’t get an answer back. In this community, you don’t have the distraction of social media, just real moms making connections and helping each other. I post self-care prompts every week to help guide you on your journey to find what works best for you. You can get real time answers to your self-care questions!
The story behind This Mom Matters
Hi, and welcome to This Mom Matters! My name is Nicolette and I am the life coach behind this business. I am a former teacher and mom to two amazing kiddos! My reason for creating this coaching business is to help other moms reclaim the pieces of themselves that they set aside when they became a mom. I help moms grow in confidence and self fulfillment so that they feel like more than “just a mom.”
After my daughter was born, I left my teaching job and was blessed to be able to stay home with her. I loved it (and still do) but I slowly felt myself drifting away. I didn’t have any time for myself and when I did, I had no idea what to do with it, so I spent it sitting on the couch and scrolling on my phone. I knew that I wanted to find something for myself so I started to slowly work on finding small hobbies I could do while she napped or after she went to bed. I was able to work a small amount of time into my day that was just for me…and then my son was born! It seemed like I got lost all over again. Then it really didn’t feel like I had time for myself. I was back in newborn mode and even when he slept, my daughter didn’t, which was something new to get used to! Again, I had to work in small steps to find time for myself throughout the day.
Throughout my journey to finding me again, separate from being a mom, I realized that a lot of other moms probably felt the same way as me. I wondered if there was some way I could help other moms get “unstuck.” That’s when I discovered life coaching and started on my journey to help other moms find themselves again after motherhood. As I reflected back on my journey I realized one big thing that was stopping me was the guilt that crept into my mind to tell me that I should be using my time to do something else. The term “mom guilt” is used a lot. It can be overwhelming when you have little ones at home and feel like you can barely keep up. Many moms hear an inner voice that is pestering them about what they “should” be doing. What chores need to be done, what activity should you be doing with your child so that they are smart, kind, helpful, and a good person? That inner voice can get loud and overbearing and difficult to turn off. Through my coaching I help guide moms on a journey to finding ways to quiet that voice so that they can find time for themselves throughout their day. This process leads to my clients finding and seeing themselves again, as their own person.
Having time just for mom is important, it helps you to feel like your own individual, separate from your children. It also helps to foster calm and patience, which reduces burnout. There is no “one size fits all” when it comes to what to do in your limited free time. We will work together to find what fits you, your day, your family, and your needs. No pressure, no expectations, no guilt.
Leave your email to sign up for my Motherhood Monthly Motivation! A simple monthly reminder to take time for yourself and to remember that YOU matter!
FAQs
How are the coaching sessions conducted?
Sessions will be conducted online with a secure connection. No need to worry about when to fit in a session, during naptime, school, or after bedtime is perfect!
What is personalized coaching?
Personalized coaching is comprised of a series of private coaching sessions where we work on goals and the steps needed to achieve them. Everything is tailored to you and your needs, which will be determined in the first few sessions.
What time commitment is required for the personalized coaching?
Each week we will meet at the same day and time for 45 minutes to talk about how things are going and to work on the next steps in achieving your goals. An overall commitment of 6 months is required in order to fully realize the goals outlined in the initial session.
What results can I expect from the personalized coaching?
From personalized coaching you can expect to learn: what you truly need to feel yourself, how to develop a positive mindset, how to release the “mom guilt” that keeps nagging at you, and how to feel more present and patient with your family.
How much does the coaching cost?
Personalized coaching for a commitment of 3 months is an upfront payment of $900.
Our online community has two membership options: Nourish is $12/month and Flourish is $30/month. You can find more information about the membership differences here.
How do I start?
To get started, first decide if personalized or group coaching is the right fit for you. You can use the links in the section you prefer to submit a form to sign up for a consultation or to find a circle that fits your schedule.
If you’re still unsure about which offering fits you best, you can fill out the form on the Contact button and Nicolette will help you determine which coaching is your best fit!
How do I know if the coaching is working?
You’ll know the coaching is working when you start to see changes in your mindset as well as your demeanor. You will start to feel more calm, and more like your own person. Instead of being stuck in the day to day chaos of being a mom, you’ll feel yourself start to break free into your own person.
Who can benefit from this coaching?
Any mom that feels stuck, overwhelmed, lost, or unsure is welcome here! Whether you want to dive deep with personalized coaching, or build a community of other like-minded moms, you have a place here and we can’t wait to meet you!
Reviews
I knew I wanted some kind of change…
“I’m so grateful I found coaching that centered around motherhood! I’m learning it’s okay to just be – not constantly have to be doing something. I’m learning to be less critical on myself, especially self talk regarding motherhood. I’m feeling confident following my goals while also feeling more present with my kids during the day, allowing me to be more patient and be the mom I want to be. I’ve always known how important it is to be able to fill my own cup as a mom, but I also now feel less weight from the guilt that comes with it. I loved the encouragement and validation in my struggles, while at the same time helping me identify areas I wanted to better myself and help set my own reachable goals. I felt very comfortable and not judged. I also appreciated learning new things about self awareness and self talk and tools to help me succeed. I also held me more accountable. Coaching is a positive process (one that can be set at your own pace) to help you in whatever season of motherhood you are in. Sometimes you may need a little boost to make the change you want to make, and that’s where coaching can come in! You are worth it!”
Liz, Michigan
I am so proud!
“I am so proud of my mindset switch from negative thoughts to positive self-talk and for taking the time to do something to focus on myself. I loved how the program was catered to my specific needs. Nicolette has a “no judgement” attitude and I felt safe and comfortable talking through things with her. If you’re on the fence about coaching I would say give it a try and take some time for yourself!”
Cara, Michigan
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This Mom’s First Step
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Find your journey: What path fits you best?
You’ve read through the website and you’re wondering if coaching is a good fit for you. Maybe you feel unsure about doing something for yourself (it might feel selfish – that might be a reason to try it). Let’s set up a free consultation so you can learn more and see if it feels right for you. No pressure!
You’ve read through the website and you like the way everything sounds, but you aren’t sure which type of coaching is best for you. They both sound like they could be a good fit; a community? Sounds great! Individualized coaching just for you? That sounds good too! Let’s schedule a free consultation and see which path would help you achieve your goals!